| Location | Newcastle-under-lyme |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 23/08/2009 |
| Date of Death | 23/08/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,580 since 30/08/2009 |
| Creator |
On 24th January 2009 me and my partner were overjoyed to discover we were expecting our first
baby.We had our first scan on the 9th March it was amazing to see our little baby for the first
time.They gave us our due date of 28th september.
On our 20 week scan we had both decided we wanted to know the sex of our baby.They checked
everything was ok,baby had a very strong heartbeat and we were then told we were having a
boy!!.Great news.We tryed very hard to keep it a secret from everyone else but we were so excited
about it all we couldnt do it.
We started buying things for our little boy and from then didnt seem to buy anything else other than
baby things,it was great we were both looking forward to being a mummy and daddy so much,very
excited.After nearly 3 years we were having the one thing we had both longed for.
Around 5/6 month mark we named our little boy Jayden,everything was going really well.At 30 weeks i
went for one of my routine growth scans.All was good they said he was average size and was doing
very well.The weeks seemed to fly by.At 32 weeks we had an anti-natal at the doctors.We heard our
little boys heartbeat,which was so strong and the doctor said he was lying in the right position for
the amount of weeks i was which was great news.
Our 4th scan soon came round,we only had 5 weeks left untill we would meet our little boy.We often
sat together wondering who he would look like!?.On 20th August we arrived at hospital so excited
about seeing how much our boy had grown.We hadnt been waiting long before we got called in.I lay on
the bed with Andy sat beside me.They started scanning me,but something didnt seem right to all the
other times before.Nobody was saying anything.Was there something wrong we both thought?.I had to
turn onto my side and still everyone was silent,then the man said that baby was lieing in a very
funny position and was going to get a second opinion.Straight away in the back of my mind i thought
something was wrong but on the other hand this was our first little baby.our little boy,nothing
could be wrong.Then a lady came in,she looked at the screen for a few seconds and confirmed our
worst fears.Our little boy had no heartbeat.We both burst into tears and just couldnt believe what
was happening.Not us,not our little boy.
Sunday 23rd August seemed like forever to come round.Around 9.30am we got the phone call to go into
hospital.I kept telling myself i would wake up soon and all this would just be a bad dream.We both
prayed we would get to the hospital and it was all a big mistake.The journey seemed to take forever
it was all a daze.We arrived and was showed to my room on the "forget me not" ward.I met my midwife
who was really nice and they left me for about half an hour.I had lots of blood taken and they
explained to me what was going to happen.I had 3 tablets and was told it could take upto 12 hours
for anything to happen.but around an hour after,i statred to have really bad pains in my back which
seemed to get worse and worse.My midwife said i was having contractions,it was all happening so
quick and before i knew it it was 5.45pm the time our precious little boy was born after only 3hours
and 45 minutes of labour.They took Jayden away to dress him and see if there was anything they could
see which could of caused this to happen.shortly after they brought him back and i held him.I was
holding our little boy who was so beautiful.His skin so pink and soft,with mummys nose and daddys
lips,our little boy,hes so perfect.
Although Jayden Andrew was "born still" he was STILL BORN and remains a BIG part of our lives.He
will never be forgotton and lives on in our hearts forever.There isnt a minute goes by where we dont
think of our special little boy.
There are no words that can describe the way we feel having our little boy taken from us so
soon,only that heaven now has a very special angel.
Mummy and daddy send you endless kisses and cuddles.We love you with all our hearts today,tomorrow
and forever.Miss you angel.xXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx
Daddy please don't look so sad,
mummy please don't cry
"cause i am in the arms of jesus
and he sings me lullabies."
Please,try not to question God,
don't think he is unkind
don't think he sent me to you,
and then he changed his mind.
You see,i am a special child,
and im needed up above
I'm the special gift you gave him,
the product of your love.
I'll always be there with you
and watch the sky at night,
find the brightest star thats gleaming,
thats my halos brilliant light.
Your'l see me in the morning frost,
that mists your window pane.
Thats me in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze,
from a gentle wind that blows
thats me,I'll be there
planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing
and your heart feels a little tug,
thats me I'll be there,
giving your heart a hug.
So daddy,please don't look so sad,
mummy don;t you cry.
I'm in the arms of jesus
and he sings me lullabies.
xXxXxXxXxXx
A poem mummy wrote xx miss you Jayden xx
We are a Mummy and Daddy.
I gave birth and we bonded too.
The only difference being,our special baby grew wings and flew.
But NO,our baby's not gone,
Jayden live's on and on.
Look up at the sky at night and you will see him shinning so bright.
Ja...yden you are so perfect.
Ten tiny fingers,ten tiny toes and a cute little button nose.
Whatever did happen to you??
Nobody knows.
You will always be our first baby boy,
Who brought together sadness and joy.
We hold you forever in our hearts,that way we never are apart.
Jayden,our kisses for you are never-ending.our cuddles and love ever-lasting.
So people even though our baby grew wings and flew.
Please remember,we are still a mummy and daddy too!!
Missing you so much
Hiya Jayden,im missing you so much.Daddy has gone back to work now and i don't know what to do with myself.I do know that you should be here keeping me busy!.We move into our new house soon which will be great but there's just one thing that will be missing...you!! I would give anything to have you back with us,we waited so long for you and it just seems so cruel for you to be taken away from us.We love you more than anything Jayden and hold you in our hearts so tightly and will do forever.Love you always xxxxxx
From me Aunty Tae to you baby Jay xxxxx
My precious nephew up above,
Aunty Tae sends her love.
I think about you everyday,
will the pain ever go away?
One things for sure
you will always be
my first precious nephew
Jayden - so special to me
xxxxxx
To our precious little angel
Mummy and daddy are missing you so much.We are trying so hard to be strong but its so difficult,we want you here with us so much why does the world have to be so cruel taking you away from us like this.We would give anything to have you back here in our arms.We have some lovely pictures off you,you are so beautiful Jayden.Would give anything to see your first smile,hear your first word,see you take your first steps,everything.We guess there must be some sort of reason why you were taken away from us,that reason we do not yet know? We just want you to know there isnt a minute goes by where we dont think of you and wish you here with us.We love you so very much and you live on in our hearts.sending you never ending kisses and cuddles angel. love you always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
SWEET DREAMS ANGEL
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To my Precious Nephew
Jayden...You are so beautiful i cant stop looking at your photo.
We would of had so much fun little man,lots of tickles & hugs & i would of showered you in so many kisses.
I imagined you playing in the garden with Alex & Torey laughing together being close cousins having sleep overs and coming for tea.
I would of spoilt you and made Mummy & Daddy cross at me because id let you have everything you wanted ... I would of bought you a Stoke Shirt to Annoy Daddy hehe!!
I would of tried to be the best Aunty ever..I would tell you stories of what Daddy got up too when he was little....
Jayden i know your always with us and being looked after by so many kind people like Nanny Smith & Kellys Daddy..everytime i see a butterfly ill think of you as they are beautiful,free and each one unique just like you Jayden..I will look after Mummy & Daddy for you, you were so lucky to have them as your parents they are very special..you are part of them Jayden..and will live in them forever...sleep well little one...i love you very much Aunty Tae xxxxx
I carried you so lovingly
within my gentle womb...
And little did I realize
your life would end so soon.
I never got the chance to say,
"I love you, little one"...
Before I held you in my arms,
your life on earth was done.
The grief is indescribable,
to lose a child this way...
All the many hopes and dreams
were vanished on that day.
I know I'll see the sun so bright
upon my baby's face...
When I finally get to Heaven,
my pain will be erased.
We'll soar the skies together,
as angels two by two...
We'll have a sweet reunion;
a mother's dream come true.
Author unknown.
THINKING OF YOU ALL
I asked the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along the way.
His love is always with you
His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares
He will always see us through.
So when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Just remember I'm here praying
And God will do the rest
SENDING ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXX
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